My Big Fat Greek Wedding - A Review

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  • David Meek
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    • Aug 2000
    • 8934

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    My Big Fat Greek Wedding - A Review

    My Big Fat Greek Wedding - A Review 01/20/2003



    What a pleasant surprise! This warm, funny, sometimes-a-bit-too-close-to-home film has come out of nowhere to gross over $230 million dollars in the U.S. alone. What did it cost to make? $15-20 million? Nope, try $5 million - yes, $5 million dollars. That figure won't even get "Ahnold" or Bruce Willis to get out of bed. What's the point you say? Just that a good story and quality acting can still shine in today's Hollywood of $100 million budgets, explosions, CGI and bad stories.

    This tale is about a young Greek woman in Chicago that dreams of better things than her life as a single waitress in the family restuarant (Greek, of course). Directed by Joel Zwick (Adventures In Babysitting, Second Sight), it stars Nia Vardalos (No Experience Necessary, Men Seeking Women) as Toula Portokalos in the role of our herione. Nia is also credited as the writer and she excels in both roles. I immediately connected with her character and felt every twist and turn of her story. Michael Constantine (The Hustler, Beau Geste, The Juror) is wonderful as Gus, Nia's weary put-upon father, and Lainie Kazan (My Favorite Year, Harry & The Hendersons, Beaches) is delightfully warm and strong as Maria, the mother. John Corbett (Northern Exposure, Tombstone, Serendipity) is Ian Miller, a young handsome teacher that is looking for something more in a woman. A fine supporting cast of actors and actresses you've seen in movies for years (but don't know their names) put in little gems all through the film.

    Can you tell that I liked this movie?

    As far as visuals, this is a character-driven story, so put away any notions of action, guns, CGI or the such. We're in a Chicago neighborhood and that's where we're going to stay. Occasionally, the picture seemed soft, softer than even the mood called for - I don't know if this was a directoral choice or a condition of my theater's media and projector. The audio was un-exceptional too. It allowed the story to be told without being noticed. Dialog was clear and understandable throughout.

    What made this movie so enjoyable? If you are fortunate enough to have come from a large, eccentric, extended family, it lets you go back and re-live many of the moments (memorable and not-so) in your life. If you came from another kind of environment, it opens up to you the feeling, the sense of what it would be like to be there and how wonderful (and frustrating) it can be to have so many people around that want to "help" you in making the decisions in your life. Toula wants more. Every day she goes to the restaurant and every day she dreams of doing more. College. working in a travel agency. Meeting Mr. Right instead of the "good Greek boys" her dad keeps pushing her toward. Getting a little further away from her married-with-kids sister and her brother who has dreams of his own. Ian is a teacher who is looking for someone he can believe in, someone who is more than just a pretty face and a nice body. Can they come together? If they do, can they overcome the hurdles of Ian not being Greek?

    I started smiling about 2 minutes into this film and pretty much didn't stop all the way through. Coming from an extended, caring East-Texas farming family, I saw way too many of my relatives up there and couldn't help but draw similarities between them and the characters on screen - it was great! I wasn't really sure what to expect when I walked in, but on walking out, I was already preparing to tell all my friends to see this movie. It's well worth your time. I give My Big Fat Greek Wedding :4: out of :5:.




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  • Andrew Pratt
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    • Aug 2000
    • 16478

    #2
    Its always nice to see a homegrown movie take the country by storm. This was written here in Winnipeg and was based on a greek family here...it was also filmed in Toronto I believe. Funny thing is my wife saw it in the theater with her sister and for one reason or another I haven't had chance to watch it yet....which is something I really want to fix




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    • Danbry39
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      • Sep 2002
      • 1584

      #3
      I think this is scheduled to be released on DVD shortly and it's one of the ones I'll buy sight unseen. My daughter and her teenage friends have seen it at the theater a couple of times and she raves about it. I love these sleeper hits.




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      • George Bellefontaine
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        • Jan 2001
        • 7636

        #4
        Apparently it will become a tv series starring all the same actors who appeared in the film.

        Andrew, is Nia a Canadian ?




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        • Patrick Sun
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          • Aug 2000
          • 1382

          #5
          John Corbett (the hubby) will not reprise his role in the TV show, which will be called "My Big Fat Greek Family" (I think).




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          • Andrew Pratt
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            • Aug 2000
            • 16478

            #6
            Andrew, is Nia a Canadian ?
            born right here in winnipeg!






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            • John Holmes
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              • Aug 2000
              • 2707

              #7
              Nice review David!

              I had no plans to see this film. But, sense you enjoyed it so, I will rent it upon it's dvd release.




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              • George Bellefontaine
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                • Jan 2001
                • 7636

                #8
                Will be a definite rental for me, too.




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                • Uncle Clive
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                  • Jan 2002
                  • 919

                  #9
                  Rented this movie last Saturday night. It was good fun. Your reviews are dead on. I wished that they would have used a different Flag on the desk at the travel agency though. We have nothing to hide :?




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                  • David Meek
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                    • Aug 2000
                    • 8934

                    #10
                    Hi Clive! What flag did they use? I missed that. . . .

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                    • Uncle Clive
                      Former Moderator
                      • Jan 2002
                      • 919

                      #11
                      Naah! Don't worry about it, I just like to see Canadian flags in Canadian shot films, it's just me. :cry:




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                      • Danbry39
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                        • Sep 2002
                        • 1584

                        #12
                        Finally got around to seeing BFGW today and, for once, it lived up to the hype. In my opinion, this is well deserving of its sleeper hit status. Most of all, me and my two daughters all loved it together. My wife hasn't had time to see it yet, but I know she'll love it as it's more her type movie, than mine.




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                        • Burke Strickland
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                          • Sep 2001
                          • 3159

                          #13
                          This "sleeper" is a "keeper". Instead of renting it, since it had received such high praise from a reliable source (see review top of thread) I broke my standing rule NOT to buy DVDs of movies that I have not already seen. Best Buy had it at a release week special price and I got an additional 10% off that during their President's Day weekend sale. And I'm glad I did buy it, 'cause it will be in my DVD jukebox and ready to entertain for some time to come.

                          If you've read the thread, you've already read the story premise, and you've already read how much people enjoyed it or plan on enjoying it. Add me to that list. (I did enjoy it and I plan on enjoying it again and again.) :>) It was well made and does NOT show its low budget in its production values (looks and sounds fine) -- and I guess one big city looks about like any other these days, because I was willing to believe the story was unfolding in Chicago, even though we already know it was made on a specially constructed set on the frozen tundra somewhere near Hudson Bay. (OK, maybe they didn't build Toronto just to film this movie, although it looked custom-made for it, :>) but Toronto's a lot closer to Hudson Bay than where I live, and a little bit colder too. :>) And since they used Greek flags all over the place, it could just as well have been filmed in Athens, since, as we know, flags are proof of location.) :>)

                          Anyway it had me laughing all the way through, not always big belly laughs but in virtually every scene there was something amusing to chuckle at that was insightful at the same time. (Even the corny one liners had a ring of truth -- they weren't just throw away lines or "filler".) I loved the scene (shown as a clip on TV so this isn't a spoiler) where the lead character is waitressing in the family restuarant and a dude sitting at a table talking with another guy asks for more coffee and she says yes and pours coffee in the other guy's cup, the one she's been looking at "across a crowded room" and continues to stare at while pouring the coffee. (Turns out, the guy she is ignoring in the movie is her husband in in real life. In the movie, he's the perfect foil for his buddy who gets the girl's attention.)

                          Although the story has been down-played as sit-com material in some reviews, it resonated more deeply than that, and spoke to the human condition, families and relationships, coming of age finding one's true path vocationally and love in life... in her case a little behind schedule, which adds to the dramatic tension and the humor... without taking any of it too seriously. It had a message without being a heavy handed "message movie".

                          Highly recommended. If you are already planning to rent it go ahead and enjoy it and then kick yourself for not taking advantage of this week's special pricing when you decide to buy it. Or cut to the chase and go ahead and buy it now while the release week special price is still in effect. (No late fees that way, either.) :>)

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                          • Danbry39
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                            • Sep 2002
                            • 1584

                            #14
                            Burke,

                            I bought mine sight unseen too, but I do it frequently. Somehow, when I total the cost of taking my family and friends of my daughters, it usually comes out to around $75. My thinking these days is that, as long as I would go to the theater and see it sight unseen, why not buy it sight unseen and save, in this case, about $60. Then, I have it for whenever I want to watch it and can afford more software. I'm, of course, rationalizing a bit here though. :P I suppose I could have seen a hell of a lot of movies for the money I spent on HT, but...

                            By the way, your review of the movie was amazingly well done ;x( , much better than many of the pros do. You too David. :^x

                            Most of all, I just love reading posts about a film I truly love.




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                            • Andrew Pratt
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                              • Aug 2000
                              • 16478

                              #15
                              I bought this on friday as a gift for my wife. We ended up making friday a greek night with a really nice meal at the white tower restauraunt (on roblin just over the moray bridge) and watching MBFGW. I ended up really enjoying the story and found many scenes that rang true for our own past experiences with our two familes etc.




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                              • David Meek
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                                • Aug 2000
                                • 8934

                                #16
                                Originally posted by Burke
                                Instead of renting it, since it had received such high praise from a reliable source (see review top of thread) I broke my standing rule NOT to buy DVDs of movies that I have not already seen.

                                Burke, thanks for the vote of confidence, it is greatly appreciated. BUT, now the pressure is on! I've got people (friends, especially) buying movies based on MY reviews? Gulp. 8O




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                                • George Bellefontaine
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                                  • Jan 2001
                                  • 7636

                                  #17
                                  Don't sweat it, Tex. Your reviews are objective . You are not ramming anything down the reader's throat. And when you do give a high star rating, you are always dead on.




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